Archive for February 2009

A day on the train

We’ve all slowly been get­ting sick one by one since the recep­tion. Nes was in so much pain this morn­ing that she went to the hos­pi­tal to get checked out. They ran some tests and con­cluded that she (and sev­eral oth­ers) had some mys­te­ri­ous intesti­nal virus. I sup­pose shak­ing hands with over 400 peo­ple probably […]

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Meet my wife

Well, our 16-month engage­ment is over. Agnes and I got mar­ried yes­ter­day morn­ing at Ursu­line Chapel in Ban­dung, Indone­sia. Con­sid­er­ing all of the chaos lead­ing up to it, the wed­ding and recep­tion went remark­ably smooth. The sun ris­ing over the moun­tains out­side my hotel room; 22 Feb 2009. The day started early for Agnes. She awoke […]

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Sangjit

Om Thomas accom­pa­nies Joe on the key­board Tonight my fam­ily joined Agnes’ fam­ily at their house for the tra­di­tional pre-matrimonial gift exchange, called Sangjit. Sangjit is a Chi­nese tra­di­tion that, from what I’m told, dif­fers quite a bit from fam­ily to fam­ily. For our San­jit, we each exchanged eight dec­o­rated bas­kets of gifts (clothes, shoes, […]

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Tangkuban Perahu

Today we vis­ited Gunung Tangkuban Per­ahu, an active vol­cano in a state park just out­side of Ban­dung. Vis­i­tors can lit­er­ally drive up to the edge of the crater and walk around. The crater is huge and con­stantly spews stinky sul­furous steam. The view of the city and sur­round­ing moun­tains are equally impres­sive. Katie, Mom, Dad, […]

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Rumah sakit

Grandma’s foot has mys­te­ri­ously swollen up and become so painful she can’t even walk on it. She tried to tol­er­ate it yes­ter­day, but today she wanted to go see a doc­tor. Luck­ily Nes’ cousin Dani works at Bandung’s inter­na­tional hos­pi­tal and agreed to meet us. She was seen by two doc­tors in the emer­gency room, […]

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Menyiapkan pernikahan

Well, Nes and I have finally set­tled in. We’re stay­ing at Nes’ par­ents’ house in Ban­dung. Their neigh­bor­hood is sit­u­ated atop one of the foothills of Bandung’s sur­round­ing moun­tains. From the roof, you can see down into the val­ley that the city occu­pies. The weather is beautiful—high sev­en­ties and partly cloudy. Heaven com­pared to what […]

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Sittin’ in Seoul

Nes and I arrived in Seoul a few hours ago after almost 14 hours above the Pacific. Nes slept—I watched movies (Nick & Nora’s Infi­nite Playlist, Vicki Christina Barcelona, Eagle Eye) and this week’s LOST episode. Nes vs. lap­topzilla Not much to do for the next sev­eral hours, but the air­port has free wire­less and […]

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The wait begins

Six hours down—30 to go! Nes and I are just start­ing to hun­ker down for our nine-hour lay­over in Los Ange­les. We bought a 30-day World­Club pass so we’re try­ing our best to fill up on free beer, olives, and inter­net access. Right now, I’m anx­iously wait­ing for last night’s LOST episode to fin­ish downloading.

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